There are some bitter truths that you must realize as a man, and the earlier you acknowledge them, the better it is for you.
1. The only man who wants you to be more successful than him is your father.
2. The only women who love you unconditionally are your mother and grandmother.
3. Whenever you see a random girl on the road or elsewhere, and she gives you greenlight, it is out of need and not attraction.
4. Never make either short-term or long-term plans with any woman that you are not married to. She probably has her plans that you do not know of.
5. The same society that tells you to stay away from romantic affairs when you are broke, will still tell you to abstain from cheating when you achieve financial success.
6. You cannot help the poor if you are one of them. Your circle can quickly sell out where you are heading to.
7. Your decisions are very important. They create the future. You already know where poor ones will lead you to.
8. When you start becoming successful in that struggling environment you grew up in, leave immediately for your own safety. A hungry man has no dignity.
9. When you meet a girl’s father for the first time, the first thing he wants to know is what you do for a living. Dey play.
10. Don’t accept help from people who want to carry you on their back, but your legs are still on the ground.